Something Clever

So lately i have been browsing face book seeing all these girls who are having another baby and wishing i could do the same. But when people see them pregnant they don’t question it, but if i were to become pregnant there would be so many questions being asked instead congratulations being given and personally i find it quit ridiculous and hurtful. I love the life that i am living and i wouldn’t change a thing, i just wish i could get pregnant and be treated like every “straight” girl! Its frustrating, when Kate and I talk about having more kids we shouldn’t be talking about how we will explain how it happened it to family.. Just because we gay doesn’t mean that getting pregnant changes, i mean yes the process is different but in the end A sperm still meets and egg and a new life is created why does it matter HOW the sperm gets there! When a “straight” married couple cant get pregnant through sex they can go have IVF done and are not questioned but the second a same sex couple does its THE WORST THING EVER!! And i hate being asked how we would get pregnant, FIRST OFF it DOES NOT involve a three some or me having a one night stand with a guy either. Its called in vitro fertilization GOOGLE IT! Its one thing to ask questions out of curiosity but don’t be ignorant about it. Within the next couple of years we are planning on having more kids. If you don’t like that to damn bad. Its my life not yours and i will live it how i please..i do not need society there to judge me on my every move and tell me how i can do it. And one day the federal government will recognize Gay marriage and one day we will all be equal as we should be. Just because i am gay doesn’t make be different, i still breath air like a “straight” person, i still have blood running through my veins, words hurt me, and being a mom is something i have wanted sine i was little too, I also gave my heart to the my “prince charming”. Just because our “prince charming “  don’t have the same body structure doesn’t make us different, we are both in love, we both want to grow old together, we both made vows for life, e both have a bond that can never be broken. the sooner society sees that there is no different then everyone else the happy this world will be. We have enough problems with wars and fighting we don’t need to be taking up our precious time fighting over who can marry who we should be focusing on things that actually matter and will effect our lives.

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